I know I am new, but I must agree with the other ladies. Trupeach, forget him. If he isn't honest now when he has no reason to lie imagine how bad he will be later.
And I know that most people think that dating sites don't work, but I met my husband on Matchmaker.com and he as perfect as a man can be, lol. We will be married 8 years in May. We both lived in the same city, though. Have you considered trying to find someone that didn't live so far away?