Originally Posted by NanaInVirginia
Have you considered trying to find someone that didn't live so far away?
Even though I am in Ohio and he is in KY it is only about 1/2 hour away. Actually there is a man who has been interested in me the same about of time as the other. he lives 4 miles from me and actually drives the main road past my subdivision to get to work. He is very nice, but he is quiet and doesn't talk much. The SOB and I make each other laugh non stop. We could talk on the phone for hours where as the other guy 10 minutes of talking and it is like I am putting teeth for him to say something.
I actually called the SOB tonight I have been talking to him almost 2 months and realized something might have happened to him. His family owns a farm, not a real farm there is no house just 20 acres with a barn. His car broke down and when he called me Friday he was on his way to get parts for it. He lives in a condo so he was bringing the car to the farm to fix. I thought what if he was in the barn and something happened to him, like the car falling on him no one but me knew he was there. When I called he sounded like I woke him, I did. he CLAIMES he was sick and got up at 11:30 took a shpwer hoping he would feel better and instead he went back to bed and fell asleep. he said everytime he works in the barn he gets sick. I told him I think there is someone or for all I know he could have a wife. Now he always talks to me for a long time tonight it was for 10 minutes. he sounded sick and was not laughing the way he always does. he said he had to go to work tomorrow and didn't want to get worse if he went out. He said nothing was set in stone about him meeting me. I told him I was eating pizza and he missed out he said if he knew I made pizza he would have gotten out of bed and came over. Honestly if he is REALLY sick I wouldn't have wanted him to come here. That is all I wold have needed was to get sick and get Joyce sick when tomorrow they will tell her the next surgery date. I asked if he wanted to get off the phone he said he didn't want to be rude but he really didn't feel that well to talk. I said what did your wife walk in? He said," I call and talk for hours on Friday and Saturday night, I call you all the time from work and I am not suppose to talk on the phone and I do anyway." I said well I will let you go I hope you feell better soon. I won't call him anymore. OH OH I forgot I told him he is just not into me like the movie, he said that is not true he loves my NY accent and the fact that I have only been married once and not slept around since my divorce. he says he wants what back in the day would have been called a GOOD GIRL and I am it. Who knows if he is full of poop or not. Time will tell. Why am I so drawn to him? I hate it that I am.