1. you and your hubby are a team against all others - kids, inlaws, jobs, friends - EVERYTHING! and don't let anything come between your team.
2. Remember you fell in love with him for a reason. If you fell in love with him once you can again - love can evolve but if neglected it can and will die. Nurish it every day.
3. in every marriage of longstanding there are times when you want (or he does) to say "and don't let the door hit you in the butt on the way out" that's when you have to work that much harder.
4. Remember God has blessed your marriage so he should play a major part it it also. He is the only being that should be included as a major participant beside your spouse.
5. Don't loose your ability to laugh. Many an argument can be turned away with an easy answer. Laughter is as essential as sex in a marriage.
and NEVER, NEVER forget to say I love you every day or to kiss every day.