When I met my husband many years ago, we were both in our 30's, second marriage for both. One thing I said I could not live with bar hopping and my man going to bars... So we needed to come up with a hobby we both enjoyed together as well as time alone. We gave each other a week wrote our answers on paper and both wrote FISHING. That was to become our favorite thing and caused much laughter and fun. lol Many late nite dinners. I also placed a love note in his lunch everday, he told me years later the other guys were jealous. (smile) He died of a heart attack at age 47. We just never know. Make the best of your relationship now... Smile and for some reason most men need to know they are the KING, and you do adore them. Have fun and LAUGH a lot. will take away all stress. ((((hugs)))