I read your story and could so relate to jammie days. I've been disables for several years but this past winter became a jammie person, staying up late and sleeping too. I ejoy the freedom of appointments and spending my spare time making charity qilts, putting outside but enjoying having a man cut the lawn now.
The portion of my live that deviates from yours is the companionship you, your DH, Dear friends and family still have and cherish. I'm so happpy you and your DH have jammie days, outings and fun days to love, laugh, live and enjoy each other, cherish each one.
God Bless you both... :-D