Sounds like from the beginning this was poorly coordinated. They had an idea, but, did not put forth any effort. The few of you ladies stepped in and came up with the fabric and the time to make there idea become a reality. If it was not for the 4 of you, I am sure that either this quilt would end up a disaster or it would never have gotten made. Then this gentleman calls just around the time that your finishing up. He has on heck of a nerve to want to make a change. I classify him as an idiot. I would have stopped where you were and given it to him and told him he could find someone to rip it all out and do it over good luck, we have put a lot of our hours and love into this, but, were not taking it apart! Good for you that you told him no!! You have stepped up and have done what you planned. I would not volunteer for them again, unless they have a plan, and it's set, but, for now, I would not volunteer for some time