My cousin adopoted 2 little boys from Romania about 10 years ago..brothers about 3 and 5 at the time. They had a rough couple of first years (language/socialization issues). The boys had been in an orphanage since the youngest was born; basically living in a crib 90% of the time. About 7 yrs later they adopted a baby girl from Russian. What a blessing these children have been. All 3 now sound like they grew in New Orleans..lol. Bright, happy and very smart kiddos. If this is what God plans for you, it will all work out.