I have a daughter that was adopted from Korea at 9 months old. She just turned 14 a week ago. I had 3 birth children ages 8,10,and 12 at the time. She is a special needs child so I don't have experience in the "typical' foreign adoption adjustments but have gone through quite alot and would be glad to help you with information. My advice right now is not to rush into anything. I thought about it for quite a while and finally decided to go ahead with adopting because I felt I would always regret it if I didn't. Like others, I put my faith in God that he would lead me in the right direction and he did. I just had to listen to the messages he sent me.