I loved your openness....and your willingness to reach out to the less fortunate. My daughter adopted two girls (ages 8 and 13) from Russia. My husband was really worried that it would be a big mistake. We all agree it was a "God-thing"! It has turned out sooooo well. She has had them 9 years now and one is in graduate school working on a doctorate in Psychology and the other is a Jr. iin college working on an art degree. How very very much they enrich our lives. You will be in my prayers and I know you will be led to do the best thing for all concerned.