been married 48 yrs in Dec. always make my DH number 1. Never go to bed mad kiss goodnight even if you still feel upset. It's a big give & take and I think woman can give easier than a man so just love each other. Wound you rather live alone or work at your marriage and stay happy together. My Mom told me that if you have and argument with your husband stay and settle it together and she was right. We've never argued to much but I let a lot go that I isn't worth a big deal. Talk and touch each other daily.