Later as I thought about this I had to come back and say that my DH is a great man.. we've been married 41 years. I think what made my outragious, middle of the night demand work so well is that I just never do that. Very few things are worth making a stink over. No one is perfect and I don't require anyone to be perfect.. I'm easy, undemanding, quickly get over things and never hold a gruge.. But NO TP or leaving the ring up in the middle of the night are beyond a women's ability to handle without a fuss.. so guys just need to learn that if they can't remember those simple things, there will be trouble!