I hear all the wonderful experiences people had in adoption and my heart aches. I adopted a baby girl and I guess I didn't look into it well enough. I had a auful experence. Behavior problems is a nice way of putting it. She even set my house on fire. That was befor I broke the adoption. My heart breaks everytime I go back through memory lane. I loved her so much. my advice, check things out very well. Love cann't fix everything.