*hugs* to you!!!! I remember the horrible sick feeling when I heard that word "cancer" over the phone.... my dad had prostate cancer. Thankfully he was able to take care of it successfully, but I know that once I was over the initial shock, I started doing all the research I could so I could understand and support him. It's a scary thing to hear! She should be glad to have you - even though you're not close by her, your support will be so appreciated!