zappycat do you have your secret pal yet? I agree with what you said about manners and sometimes things happen.It's awful to think maybe the person didn't really care for what you sent.We all try so hard to make nice packages,no matter how small they are.It only takes a few seconds to put a smile on someones face with a thank you.And with as many people that are on here things are bound to come up in life that causes a delay or something.We need to be patient till we know what is going on.Guess I should get off my soap box and use it to do some laundry.lol Mary