My hubby is already pretty ill and I am his care giver I will know monday when I am going in for radical hysterectomy. I too am hoping to get thru with both of us laid up. I guess we will have to rely on God. I had d/c 3 weeks ago and I am still trying to get totally back on my feet but we made it throught that. God only gives us what we can handle dispite our fears. God bless us all.