tru, you're wasting too much time and energy on this loser. If he contacts you tell him you're not interested (he's probably not used to hearing that and that will hit him hard). In the mean time, he's off your radar and you have other things to do. Sorry about being so blunt, but I really like things cut and dry. Obviously he can't rise to your standards so he's not even worthy of being history. Let him go hurt someone else, you don't need it. Now that your rid of him, what's your next quilt look like?