Originally Posted by joyceelaine1951
I have a problem when I put the backing on, even if it fits when it's layed out it's to big when I stitch it.
I don't understand what you mean by this. Are you saying you get wrinkles and puckers in your back when you quilt from excess fabric? If so, this may be why the amish lady suggested tying. And yes, as others posted you have to tie everywhere on the quilt, usually at space intervals dictated by the batting. When I tie, I tie every 3" apart throughout the whole quilt. This is probably what the Amish lady meant.
But if you prefer to quilt, we would need clarification of exactly what is happening in order to help you and pictures help, along with detailed explanation of what you are doing.