It wasn't like this for me. My hubby and I shared all the housework duties and he actually did a little more than me some days, especially in September and October when I was exhausted from teaching Kindergarten. BUT since my retirement, I can't bring myself to ask for help. He pitches in sometimes but not like before. I suppose that is only fair. Doesn't make me like it any better though!
BUT I am counting the months until he retires! 24!!!!