I know this is not what you want to hear but you are getting strong for you and your kids. Your husband is doing an amazing thing and so are you and when you learn all these new things will make you even stronger! To have a military husband you must already be strong, so cut yourself a break....sometime PEOPLE SUCK, and if your husband was there or not PEOPLE SUCK! Not all people and not all the time it just sounds like you ran into a couple of those. You are going to be fine it was one day, go take a bath have some chocolate, you'll feel a little better! If you need someone to buck you up send me a PM I can be there for you like your husband is there for all of us!