On the lighter side, my children ( 2 grown men) know that I will put things into books, so I told them to make sure that they go through everything when I go. Now because I have told them this, I have decided to have the last laugh. I bought a lace up, black with red lace, merry widow at a sale in an upscale deparmnet store. I washed it and put it underneath my other night gowns. I can just imagine the looks on their faces when they find that.