i am sorry but i have very strong feeling about this issue----please accept with grace all you are offered----they are a gift---everyone starts some where---some never progress but as adults we need to be accepting + nurturing--your idears of sit and sew are a great idear-----you can tell when things are being dumped on you or given with love---ihave heard rumors of quilts donated to the queensland floods being dumped as not up to standard i do hope this is just a rumore