Originally Posted by SWChick
You have the right to be angry, get mad as hell. Scream, beat your fists on the wall, stomp your feet. Sweetie, stay sane anyway you can. If there is anyone around besides your darling DH make them get up and help. If friends, neighbors, or church members offer to help, let them. Don't try to do it all alone, accept help when its offered and demand family help. God be with you.
That's the problem...it's just the three of us... dds live out of town/state....
dd#1 helps when she can but she lives out of town and is a single parent and she comes down when she can but is really busy herself.
dd#2 lives out of state and only gets home twice a year for about a week each time...
Neither DH or mom can carry anything because of balance problems. Mom has to use a walker at all times and DH uses a cane most of the time.
Today has just been a bad day... I hope that dh can forgive my outburst... he's the one that gets blasted 99% of the time... mom is clueless because of dementia... yeah... my own little nursing home....