Leota...............you know I love you and my heart goes out to you but remember DH has lived way beyond what was expected. God has a plan for all of us, we have no chocies in life, we have to except what that plan is. A life can be gone in an instant due to anything. Wheather it be illness or accident. 9-15 years is a long time you don't know what could happend with medicine in that amount of time. We can't decide what will happen to us or a loved one. All we can do is leave it to our maker and know that whatever we are going through, whatever the outcome it was suppose to be. We will get through it know matter how hard it might be or how we don't think we can do it somehow there is an inner strenght. You will make it know matter what happens and you will know you are loved not by your quilting family but by Our Lord Jesus Christ who died for us to be saved.
I know we are not suppose to write about our beliefs or faith and if I offened anyone by writing this I am sorry!