I take a large bag. I often cut out a lot of quilt blocks and keep them, needles, thread, sizzors, a book of word games, Power bars, pen and paper, and a scrap book to write down things. When I was in the hospital for several days I sent a small gift each day for each of the boys. Why not try a small gift for her Lie a hair bow, a connect the dots book or a story book, Maybe do her nails for her. How about a small hand lotion? Maybe you could make her a bag to keep all her treasures in. Just hope some of this helps. Best wishes and God Bless all of you.