Craftybear...poor Sophie.... My mom's dog runs and hides in the bathroom and stays there. Then comes out when it's over. I don't think you can teach an old dog new tricks. ROFL. Dogs are like people...for example if you have a fear of spiders, there's no helping it. Phobias are just that....phobias. SO sad for her. Maybe give her hugs and play with her during the stressful times. Maybe when you get her bed fabric from me and make it, it will be her safe zone close to where you are. Feel safe by "mommy". HUGS♥♥