Carol I know you are right however I even told my therapist this. As I do the stations of the cross each day I think to myself while I read the 12th station "Father forgive them as they do not know what they are doing." But then I think to myself they do know what they have done. The destroyed my life and my childrens. They lied cheated and stole from us. Not a few hundred $ or a few thousand they stole over $40,000 yes over 40 thousand dollars. It was actually close to 60 but I stopped counting at $40,000. It was bonds my dad left for me and my kids. Not savings bonds they were different, the were kind of like stocks and in our names. I live below poverty level my sister has 2 home and 2 cabins. Since she took power of attorny when Joyce was in ICU $ is gone from donations for Joyce's medical care. I can not forgive them and I will not rest peacefully until they are dead.