Originally Posted by Grambi
I agree with giving the quilt--it was a gift made with her and her baby in mind. The wrapping idea is wonderful. If you think that it would offend others or cause a big negative deal to gift it at the shower--give it privately.
I agree too that you should give her the quilt. Wrapping is a great idea. And haven't you been to showers or birthdays where certain gifts are requested or "no gifts" and people bring them anyway? I know that I have. I'm sure that she will be thrilled to have a handmade quilt.