today(the 24th) is our 40th anniversary!All those years ago I didn't want to get married-wasn't in my "plan"--he always said he knew from day 1.....all these years later we still love each other so much!He told me 5-7 years ago, he's going to come back as a chef & WE needed to figure out, who, what I'm coming back as , -because he needed to spend another lifetime with me, as 1 was not enough!My friends were so green!! so to the next.....