I can relate to your feelings. I am the oldest and then there are 2 boys. The middle one is the GOLDEN CHILD! And he brought the most pain, worry, & sorrow to our parents while growing up! Oh well, it is what it is and can't change that. SO as for you...you did the right thing, but sounds like your little sister is spoiled. Probably cant change that either, so let it go. You might tell her gently hhow you feel about the lamp? It isn't worth causing a war or trouble over though. I wish you the very best in searching for your FW!!!! You will find it!!! Huge Hugs