I like people's comments that point out than quilting is partly about the journey. I mostly know where my skill level is and I definitely know when I look at something that is way out of my league. Because I'm a beginner, should I not even try? Is there no place in this world for my humble creations?
This is about more than quilting. This is my philosophy of life. There is room for all of us- from the jaw-droppingly beautiful to the lumpy and bumpy. To say that there is no value in the less than perfect is to discredit humanity. Who is to say that good can not come from my humble creation? Will it win a ribbon? Probably not, but will it keep the chair's upholstery clean? Sure!
Now, as others have pointed out, when advice is sought, absolutely, it should be given honestly with loving kindness. When someone is ready to celebrate their accomplishments, we should also lovingly celebrate with them.
Can you imagine not applauding a child's first attempts to walk on her own but instead critiquing her on how she can improve her coordination and balance?
My baby steps are just that, my baby steps! They are my experience in creativity and in structure. They are my sincere attempts to create something useful that will adorn my little slice of the world. Now, if I try to sell or push one of my "creations" off on you, you have the right to say, "No thank you" or even "What in the world were you thinking?" Otherwise, a comment of "good trying!" is sufficient!
This has been one of the most supportive communities, virtual or otherwise, that I've ever encountered. I love the level of support and the atmosphere of friendship. It is a refuge from the "quilt police" voices, whether those of friends, acquaintances, or the voices in my head! The quilt police voices in my head tell me not to bother creating or at least, don't show or tell anyone because my creations aren't perfect and therefore not good enough to publicly acknowledge. The QB message is that it is good enough to share, because I'm doing the best that I know how to do. My next project will be better because of what I've learned while working on my last project.
That is my soapbox! Perfection is a fabulous goal, but to deny any sort of value for something or someone that is imperfect is a tragic life mistake.