One thing I really like about this board is that everyone is sooo encouraging to newbies and everyone, really. Sometimes I look at some of the color choices and know they would never be something I'd choose. Still, variety is the spice of life and we all have different tastes - that's what makes quilting so much fun and infinitely interesting. No one has to comment on a photo if they don't want to. I certainly wouldn't if I didn't like it. I agree with those say "If you can't say something nice, why say anything at all." If someone asks for help or suggestions, they need to be prepared to hear what others say. Even then, suggestions can be made in a positive way.