What a good person you are, and no one can take that away. I always wanted a sister to share my feelings with , but not so much now. We had a favorite child in the family, he got most of my parents things, but it really didn`t help him much. And While I was poor most of my life, GOD blessed us so much. First we learned how to work hard, pay our bills, (I held 3 part time jobs when one of my girls wanted to get married and one wanted to go on to school) and do with out, it now paid off. Because our girls both have very good jobs and married good men, They too know how to use thier money well. And we came into some thing so unexpected that it now is good.