I guess I am an "old Lady" 68. I sew for charity. Take care of grandchildren when the need arises. Walk 2 to 4 miles a day. Take care of my home and garden, make our bread and cook mostly from scratch. There are women much younger who might not do as much. "old lady" is a state of mind....depends on whose mind. Tell hubby there are "old men" who watch sports....does he? lol