I remember my female relatives complaining because I hadn't had a child by the time I hit 32. I had my son at 34 and I'm glad I waited until I was ready and that I didn't listen to the old crows bugging me. My son has more than any of my nieces and nephews ever had because we were in a great position to give it all to him. The world is full of resentful mothers who were pushed too soon to have children. I say back off and let THEM decide. It's their life.