I wish I could help you...I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I have no words to explain how grateful I am for your sacrifices as a Military Bride!!!! Tell your Hubby Thank you also! Would It be ok for me to write to you? My son was in the Marine Corp for four years. That is when I learned of the hardships Military families face. It is hard on the marriage...Hard on everyone. That is why we need to support our troops and their families. Hang In there Girly!! Blessings to you!