Misty, was telling my daughter about your situation and she totally shocked me. When she was in Afghanistan she said her hubby didn't get a call from anyone. I couldn't believe it. After all she and her hubby do for spouses when their loved ones are deployed and no-one offered any help. I was shocked. She said part of the reason is that they lived off base and she was deployed 'unattached'. I guess I assumed that because they go out of their way to help others that others would do the same. WRONG