Sorry, for you and your family. I'm sure your DH is a wonderful man, but lucky for me my problem is the opposite. Mine NEVER complains but he has been a nurse for 25 yrs and thinks he can take care of himself. We do disagree about him not going to md at times though.
Now my father different story, I just tell him go to md or no one wants to hear it, if he doesn't need md then he can't be that bad.