I took a 2 hour hand quilting class at my LQS. Wow..it really helped as I was going about it all wrong!! Its not stitching like your mother taught you!! My problem (well, my biggest problem!!) seems to be getting the 1st stitch on the needle, the rest is just ALOT of practice. I used #9 betweens and dark thread on muslin to practice. I enjoy it, although one day I'd like to have some sort of stationary hoop or frame. Good luck, and don't be too hard on yourself..its supposed to be for fun!!