It does seem to come all at once doesn't it. I always blame my husband. We don't know his mother's side (my husband grew up in a foster home) and her maiden name looks like it's from eastern Europe, so I just say somewhere his ancestors ticked off the gypsys and when the moon and stars are just right - shazam it all goes to H E double hockey sticks. I try to stay clear so it doesn't richott off of me. Hang in there.