I, too, am a remote solo quilter, but I have found that taking a class at Quilt University really helps me connect in so many ways...with other quilters, with my creative spirit, and with my curiosity about trying new things.
There are tons of classes to choose from, the price is right, there are forums for each class so you can talk to fellow students and the instructor, classes are expertly taught by well qualified teachers, you can work at your own pace (in your pajamas in you feel like it), and you meet lots of new friends.
Take a look. I bet there's something that will restore your confidence, enthusiasm and passion for quilting...maybe even send you off in a whole new and exciting direction!
http://www.quiltuniversity.com/index.html