I wasnt going to answer, but I a good woman and changed my mind. If setting it a side dosen't work then sell it. If it isn't fun, you wont do it. If the stress level is so high and from the distance it sounds like there are no quilt classes that you can attend in person. (I know that there are lots of classes online). Then find something you will enjoy. Most of us here love quilting. But it is fun. Yes we ALL get stressed over something on every quilt. But over all it is fun or enjoyable. If it isn't for you, change direction, just enjoy what ever you do.