I made a Musical Mice quilt for a cancer benefit for a 12 year old girl. I did it so they could raise money to defray expenses. I went to the benefit and about 2 hours into it, I went up to the person who I'd given the quilt to give to them. I asked her what happened to the quilt? She went to the girls mother and came back and said, she loved the quilt. Since I had put 'In Honor of Samantha Graham' on the label she hoped I didn't mind, but she wanted to keep it. Her daughter died about 6 months later. But she has the quilt to help ease the pain. My first thought was, I made that to raise money. Then I realized it was where it was supposed to be. Some people are so honored by the thought and consideration involved that they don't want anything to happen to it. If this is a first child I could understand even more why they would want to display instead of using it. They don't want something on the wall that everyone else has. I think the quilt is beautiful.