Originally Posted by JulieR
I agree with the others - don't force it. If she wants to learn she'll come to you. There's no reason for anyone to HAVE to learn sewing or quilting anymore, and it's okay for someone to choose not to learn them.
Do you participate in the things she likes to do?
I agree too. And the idea to take her with and make things that you know she would like for her home, etc., is terrific. Give her time and in the meantime find a friend to quilt with and love your DIL as she is.