I do agree with all the "don't push" advice.
I've discovered, in my retirement, that getting together with a group of women to make charity quilts is a lot of fun. Do you think she would enjoy helping you make a few very simple charity quilts. Baby quilts are fun, and can be quick. Perhaps just piece a top together, and plan to finish it on your own. I don't think I would plan on sending anything home with her to finish -- that might be too much pressure.
If you have fun, schedule another 'quilting day' in a few months. If she can't seem to find a free day, don't say anything for a few years!