DH and I haven't bought each other gifts for year. If either of us wants something, we usually buy it for ourselves. I do remember when we were first married he and his brother used to go Christmas shopping together with a bottle or two of wine. My SIl and I got some really great presents. The BIl got divorced and hubby had no one to go shopping with, so that ended. But it's fine, I get what I want one way or another.