I'm 63 years old and have only flown 4 times in my life. One was from NY to Ca the others were all less than 2 hours. The last two flights I had to take a valium and have a stiff drink before boarding. I know it's a very safe way of traveling but I'm happier on a train. My grandsons and I went to Disneyland at Christmastime on the train, a twelve hour ride but we had fun.
I guess we can't pick and choose our fears. I have no problem going to the dentist but I know some people that dread it. I also know that many people are terrified of public speaking.
I do feel badly about missing out on this big beautiful world of ours but I won't be flying again.