i can't even begin to imagine what you are going through..i am so sorry about the loss of your beloved son.
i am in the middle of making 2 t-shirt quilt now..i did a short picture tutorial, and have it in my picasa albums..
https://picasaweb.google.com/strut526/TShirtQuiltForRose?feat=directlink]
https://picasaweb.google.com/strut52...eat=directlink[/url]
a light weight woven stabilizer is a must..it is expensive, but i used a coupon and bought the bolt..
feel free to ask questions..there are so many way to put them together..