Too funny! I just had this conversation with two friends yesterday. I made a king size quilt for my sister (commissioned by my bil). I nearly cried when I shipped that quilt off to her. I don't think either her son or daughter are going to want it because it would not be their style.
My friends said, "Tell her to will it back to you." I thought it would be too morbid to do that, but now you have me thinking again...