I think with any baby you have to use common sense. I always swaddled my babies when they were tiny, now they have little bags to put them in. As they got bigger they wore the fleece jammies. I always had a blanket in the crib, didn't quilt back then. My kids all survived. My daughter used the quilts as more of a decoration in the room. I love making baby quilts and figure the mother will use it as she sees fit. The quilt as a gift is a sign of love bestowed upon the new mom and the new baby. Give a quilt, don't worry about the rules.