I googled my real name. Found me, because I was listed in the death announcement of that husband. I googled my cousin and found him in Japan teaching. If your name has ever been in the newspaper, telephone book,anything public, you are in the WWW and not a thing anyone can do about it. If you ever signed voters registration, you are in there. That's how ancestry.com find people. Some times you are on page one, other times page 12,000 but you are there. Sorry.